In this edition I talk about how our devices do the work of remembering the phone numbers so we can focus on the people we’re talking to.
For over a hundred years one of the most tried and true methods of efficiently communicating across the globe was the telegram. That technology allowed for the first trans Atlantic cable to be financially possible. When my dad proposed to my mom he sent a telegram from Germany to Fresno California.
If you’d like to send a telegram today, you can’t. The last telegram was sent on July 14th 2013.
I find it prodigious that the iPhone and the telegram had several years of overlap. Looks to me though, like the iPhone won.
One of the things I do is take notes for meetings at work. Thanks to learning how to type when I was a young age (love you mom!) I’m reasonably good at this part of the job. After the meeting I’ll send the notes out to the team.
We’ve been so busy recently I wondered if people were actually getting to the end of my notes and reading them. So, yesterday I included the following:
I had Wheaties this morning. It’s the breakfast of champions and this project deserves champion level effort.
Within just a few minutes, one of the team members wrote me back to let me know that she appreciates my dedication to the project as expressed by adjusting my eating habits.
What a simple thing to a say, and what wonderful emotions came from reading it!
There actually is a greater lesson in this!
One way to set up a collaborative conversation (one where both parties feel they walked away better than when they started) is to think of each opportunity to speak as a vessel that needs to be filled with the other’s thoughts.
While done humorously in my situation, that’s essentially what I was doing for this brief conversation at the end of my notes.
Recently I posted about the need for collaboration not confrontation, but knowing a few snippets on how to set up a collaborative conversation can be helpful. It’s not about you hitting the home run comment. It’s about you setting up the other person to contribute.
Oh, and I got the answer I was looking for. Someone was reading!
People who take care of their stuff seem to have more stuff and nicer stuff.
People who treat others with repsect seem to have more friends and better friendships.
There are a few things that a reader will need to accept in order to enjoy this book. Chief among them are the ideas that a book can be powerful, short, and include pictures. Once the reader has adopted that premise, the book becomes easy to digest and enjoy.
Inside Sinek’s work are several colored pages of drawings each with brilliant insights that tell a story of a group of friends on a quest to make things better. In his text he takes the time to articulate and define objects and concepts we often deal with in our complex world while the artwork helps to solidify the message in our heads (people are visual learners after all).
The book is short enough to read on a lunch break and perfect for leaders to leave in the break room to spark conversations. If it still feels overwhelming after I described it as having pictures, I’d like to also add that my eight year old read it to me one afternoon in about 35 minutes. It’s a quick read.
Oliver DeMille often talks about having unifying cultural artifacts among groups and how impactful those artifacts on that society that adopts them. If your group is going to adopt an artifact for reference this one is likely a perfect fit.
The best way for me to endorse this book is to say that if you’re in an environment that has people then, this is probably a book you’ll want hanging around.